We are clinical psychologists who have enjoyed studying and working with couples for more than three decades, and we have been happily married to each other for just as long. Together, we have written several books and articles, including Lifelong Love: 4 Ways to Creating and Maintaining an Extraordinary Relationship, Couple Power Therapy: Building Commitment, Cooperation, Communication, and Community in Relationships (2006), "New Frontiers in Treating Couples" in Innovations in Clinical Practice: A Source Book (1998), The Dream Sharing Sourcebook (1998), and The Dream Sourcebook Journal (1996). We co-founded Couples Coaching Couples, a growing nationwide movement providing mutual support to couples in their communities. We have presented to a variety of groups, including personal growth centers, businesses, schools and professional organizations, such as the American Psychological Association.
We often give media interviews on radio and television and in newspapers and magazines regarding relationships, including a regular segment on our local radio morning talk show. After extensive training in couples, family and sex therapy in California, we moved to Charlottesville, Virginia, where we now both teach and practice. We also give workshops for couples, counselors and other professionals around North America. A number of books, CD’s, videos and podcasts of our work are available. We have two adult children who are also happily married.
Phyllis R. Koch-Sheras, Ph.D., is a practicing clinical psychologist and co-author of several books on dreams and couples, including Lifelong Love: 4 Ways to Creating and Maintaining an Extraordinary Relationship (2012), Couple Power Therapy (2006), The Dream Sourcebook (1995) and Dream On: a Dream Interpretation and Exploration Guide for Women (1983).
Dr. Koch-Sheras has been practicing psychotherapy in Charlottesville, VA since 1975, is past president of the Virginia Applied Psychology Academy, the Virginia Psychological Association, and the American Psychological Association Society of Media Psychology and Technology. She and her husband, Dr. Peter Sheras, also a clinical psychologist, have been married 37 years and have two grown children and one grandchild. Together, they lead workshops for couples and have founded the non-profit organization Couples Coaching Couples, which continues to support couples in cities across the country for over 20 years.
Dr. Koch-Sheras received her bachelor’s degree from Roosevelt University, her master’s degree from Northwestern University and her doctorate from the University of Texas. In addition to private practice, she has worked as a Training Director for the Austin State Hospital and the University of Virginia Counseling Center. She is currently a Community Fellow for Brown College of the University of Virginia. Dr. Koch-Sheras is also a professional opera singer, watercolor artist, and Dzogchen Buddhist practitioner.
Peter L. Sheras, Ph.D, ABPP, is a clinical psychologist and has co-authored several publications on couples, dream work, brief therapy, youth violence and adolescent development, including Your Child, Bully or Victim( 2004), I can’t Believe You Went Through My Stuff (2006) and Clinical Psychology: a Social Psychological Approach (1979). He has a Diplomate in Clinical Psychology, is a Fellow of the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists and past president of the Virginia Psychological Association. He appears frequently as an expert in the media on topics of couples, adolescents and families. He received his undergraduate degree from Yale University, his doctorate from Princeton University and is professor in the Curry Programs in Clinical and School Psychology and Chair of the Human Services Department in UVa's Curry School of Education.